过头: to overdo it, to overstep the limit, excessively, above one's head, overhead...
共享: to share, to enjoy together...
寡妇: widow...
吹了: failed, busted, to have not succeeded, to have died, to have parted company, to have chilled (of a relationship)...
揣摩: to analyze, to try to figure out, to try to fathom...
流失: (of soil etc) to wash away, to be eroded, (of talented staff, followers of a religious faith, investment funds etc) to go elsewhere, to fail to be retained...
出游: to go on a tour, to have an outing...
私有: private, privately-owned...
生锈: to rust, to grow rusty, to corrode, oxidization...
树林: woods, grove, forest...